Heat ghee in a pan
Add raisins and fry until raisins bulges like a balloon, keep aside
Add cashew nuts and fry until golden brown, keep aside
Heat little water in a pan
Add jaggery and dissolve it completely and bring to a boil
Stir well until the jaggery becomes slightly thick
Filter if required, keep aside
Add rice, moong dhal in the same pan and fry until fragrant
Add milk and bring to a boil (reserve about 1cup of milk)
You may open cook (as traditionally done) or pressure cook for 4~5whistles
Mash the rice and dhal well and add remaining milk
Add little ghee, jaggery syrup and mix well until it dissolves
Add little more ghee, sugar and mix well until it dissolves
Simmer the flame, keep stirring continuously
Add saffron along with the soaked milk, remaining ghee and mix well
Add cardamom, cashew mix and switch off flame